Mark Harmon’s 36-Year Love Story: Fate, Romance, and the Unbelievable Twist You Won’t See Coming!

Mark Harmon, the former NCIS director, recently recounted the story of his bold first move, marking the beginning of his 37-year marriage with Pam Dawber. The 72-year-old actor shared that their journey commenced with a spontaneous call to Mork & Mindy star Dawber after he backed out of a planned group date.

Harmon revealed that this unplanned call led to an immediate connection, a date on the same night, and eventually their wedding one year later. This heartwarming anecdote surfaced as Harmon promoted his upcoming book, Ghosts of Honolulu, scheduled for release on November 14.

Their romance unfolded shortly after Harmon was named PEOPLE’s Sexiest Man Alive in 1986, during which he expressed a preference for long-term marriages over short-term romances.

Built on a foundation of shared work ethic, laughter, and effective communication, Harmon and Dawber’s 37-year relationship has been a testament to enduring love. The couple, parents to two sons in their thirties, Sean and Ty, both involved in the entertainment industry, underscores the importance of these values in the longevity of their marriage.

Harmon’s decision to portray Special Agent Gibbs on NCIS was motivated by his desire to stay actively involved in his sons’ lives despite the demands of his work schedule. Even after his departure from the popular CBS series, the 72-year-old Harmon clarifies that it signifies a transition to writing rather than retirement.

Following an impressive 19-season run as Special Agent Leroy Jethro Gibbs, Harmon’s debut historical nonfiction book, Ghosts of Honolulu: A Japanese Spy, a Japanese American Spy Hunter, and the Untold Story of Pearl Harbor, marks his transition from acting to authorship.